
We as a church have failed our communities. The church is meant to be a place of refuge, solitude, growth, community, and fellowship. Instead we have turned it into a place that people run away from. Yes church hurt is real, but it's time to HEAL and restore God's original design of His church.


In this book we talk about the realities of why people are experiencing church hurt. We share testimonies of real people, with real experiences, and how they have overcome their church hurt and are now serving the masses in a mighty way.
We take a look at 10 common examples of church hurt experiences and how to overcome them. I expose what church really IS and what it is NOT. And then we take a journey of transformation of healing the body, as well as the church. By the end of this book you will know what it feels like to forgive, to move forward in freedom, and my hope is that you will seek to BE the church, not just attend it.
-Phyllis Hunter
Of people who leave the church said it was due to a mental, emotional, physical or spiritual traumatic experience.
The other 20%, though they find a different church home, have not fully dealt with the trauma, may still be carrying it with them.
Of the 60% who left, 40% of people leave their faith entirely.


We're breaking the chains of hurt, distrust and fear.

We're placing trust back in God, not in man.

We're rebuilding the confidence back into the church body and restoring the heart of God's people..

We're putting the pieces of the heart back together through forgiveness, love and hope.
Of people who leave the church said it was due to a mental, emotional, physical or spiritual traumatic experience.
Of the 60% who left, 40% of people leave their faith entirely.
The other 20%, though they find a different church home, have not fully dealt with the trauma and may still be carrying it with them.
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Recognition in a chapter of the book
An autographed copy of the book
Hi! I'm Phyllis. A mother, an author, pastor and army veteran. In my time of service in different churches I have seen a lot. I've seen people the church hurt, angry, confused, frustrated and ready to give up on life. I've even left a couple of churches myself. What I have learned is that people come into the church one way, and as a body, it is our job to ensure they leave changed. Yet, we are human beings and we come up short at times. In the church, coming up "short" can be detrimental. That's why God put this book on my heart. If you're reading this and you are a victim of church hurt, I want you to know you are not alone. This book comes from my heart to yours and I pray you receive the healing your spirit needs to rise up and be all that God has created you to be. Don't let church hurt stop you. Remember, church hurt is real, but so is Healing.

Author, Pastor, Spiritual Mentor





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